2021-03-28 节拍有点乱可是仍然有几个有启发的点, have the uncomfortable conversation, if you are in the place to not have the conversation for the comfort you are in a privileged position, people who are targeted are not responsible for initializing the conversations and building the tables where they should be happening. greif, love, ordinary, joy, gratitude有本人一同悟到里面去。and vulnerability ≠ closure. vulnerability minus boundaries
2020-08-25 ordinary momentspicture memory be vulnerable, be seen, show up in the blockwhen we are in retrospect, i hope we do not regret for things that we didnt do
2003-07-29 又哭又笑地看完了。Far From The Tree末尾一章里Andrew Solomon讲他本人成为父亲的影象,差不多提到“养儿育女是安全感的训练,恰是无休止的乘机而动的危机让怙恃之爱逾越了男女之情”。Brene Brown评论辩论的Daring Greatly,事实上便是在其余局限的“安全感训练”。